Monday, July 28, 2014

The Wroaming Wraspir

I'm totally stealing the Wroaming Wraspir from the MomUnit. That's what she's signed her emails with when her and the DadUnit were traveling.  I think it's their fault I wroam.

Ahem.

Anyhow, you know how I've been telling you how I think I'm having a mid-life crisis and how that's causing me to walk down memory lane? Well, I did some driving down memory lane this weekend.

I've been wanting to do this for a long time, LONG time, so I can't even blame the mid-life crisis, but well my blog. My rules.

If you know me at all, you know I move, or used to, a lot. I had friends who used to joke that they needed an address book for just W's for all my addresses.  I am a military brat - the early years. And then Boeing moved us a couple of places.  By the time I was 40, I had figured out I had lived in 27 different places. 

My life after college graduation is almost half of those moves. 12! 13 really, but one I didn't count because it was moving home for 3 months and well, it didn't count. We'll just pretend it didn't happen.

So 12 places.  All in the Seattle area and all were a direct by-product of what I could afford.  Interesting how your salary increases and so does your living environment. Weird.

This weekend I decided to drive around the area and check out the old stomping grounds. What an experience that was! Some places I drove right to. Others I drove in circles. Still others I wasn't 100% sure it was the place because it looked so different. But I guess a lot can happen in 23 years.


When I graduated from college, I lived with the folks. The DadUnit was adamant that we find a job and find a place to live. It just so happened that they had a house they wanted to rent. So Blueberry, another family member and myself moved into what I call "The Yellow House."

I wish I would have had my act together to buy the house from the parents, but just out of college making next to nothing at Boeing, a house payment seemed too out there for me.

I loved the Yellow House - which isn't yellow any more (top left corner). It had a great location in Bellevue and was a nice layout. But it wasn't enough for me. No I felt like it was time to spread my wings even more and so moved to Chandler Bay in Kent to live with someone we'll call The Terror.

She, and later her good for nothing boyfriend, lived in a small apartment in Chandler's Bay. We worked together and so carpooled together, mostly.  The place wasn't a bad location and wasn't a bad complex.  It totally looks different now and I wasn't able to even find the unit we lived in. Which is probably better.

Having to deal with her insane BF and her lack of ability to pay rent (he didn't pay rent you see), I decided it was time to move out on my own. A guy I was working with had built this lovely house and was renting the rooms. So I moved into Ivan's house.

We worked together, so we carpooled together too. He had 4 rooms upstairs that he rented and the other roommates and I got along - mostly. One guy just stayed in his room. And when he moved out Ivan said he was going to have to dynamite that room and start over. It was disgusting. Bottles of urine left, black marks on the wall where his head used to lean against. It was gross.

Then we got a roommate that we later found out was wanted from the FBI. We were at work one day when the FBI called Ivan and said he needed to come home and turn off the alarm and answer questions about Greg.  Turned out he was wanted in 4 states for fraud. Nothing he told us was true. He had left all his illegal paperwork and seals and what not behind.  They had been looking for him and his father for years.  When he scrambled away from the house, he only took things that wasn't his like my rent $$, some checks from all of us roommates, and a coin collection.  Crazy I tell ya.

Eventually Blueberry moved in with us into Ivan's house. Then eventually we moved into a short stint with the folks.  Dad gave us 3 months to get out. Didn't take a photo of this cuz I'd rather forget we moved home.

After that Blueberry and I shared an apartment in what's now Newcastle.  It was a nice little place. We both had cats, we both had jobs and we both seemed to be doing well. But again, I was ready to be on my own, so I opted to move out.

I moved to a complex called Country Hills in Redmond. Crappy little apartments at the time. Today their called The Berkshire Apartment Homes.  Here is where I started realizing that each year they'd raise my rent. And I figured if they raised my rent I could move to some place a bit nicer. So each year I moved.

Following Country Hills I moved to Brighton Ridge - also in Renton. Blueberry hated to move so she stayed put. Nothing exciting happened in Brighton Ridge other than that's where my cat Chuck snuck out and got hit by a car.  First time I had to put a cat down. Hated it.

After my year in Brighton Ridge, I moved into a condo in Kirkland. I loved living in downtown Kirkland. The rent was cheap for the place we had. My roommate at the time was a former boss of mine and we got along - ok. Eventually she bought a house and moved out. Blueberry moved in.

We probably would have stayed in Kirkland had our landlady not been completely insane and lost her house and had to move back into the apartment we were in.  Then she wouldn't return our security deposit and so we sued her.  Ended up only getting half the deposit back, but it was about the principle of the matter.

From there, Blueberry and I moved to Sammamish View in Eastgate. We were there for a total of 6 years, 3 living together and 3 living separate.  After 3 years of living together, it was me, again, who wanted to live on my own. I realized I could afford a one bedroom in that complex so we moved.  In fact, our move date was two days AFTER Blueberry had been diagnosed with breast cancer.  Such timing.

So after 3 years in this place, and the parents visiting on a fairly regular basis, I decided I needed a 2 bedroom place.  The only place I could afford happened to be in Lynnwood - aka the Hood.  So Pookie and I moved up north.  I really liked that place for the most part. The commute to Bellevue sucked and I knew I'd move eventually. Still I lived there for 3 years until Mr. & Mrs. Landlord's place in Redmond came available.

And here I've been for the new record of 5 years. Either my gypsy blood (if I have any of that) has worked it's way out, or I'm too old to want to move anymore.

In all this moving, I only considered a couple of times buying a place. Then I realized that owning a home wasn't something I felt like I wanted or needed to do. Besides, when you own you can't leave as easily.  And this Wroaming Wraspir might need to wroam again...eventually....maybe...

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Misty Water Colored Memories....

I think I'm having a  mid-life crisis. I mean, how does one know? All I know if I've been feeling quite nostalgic these days and have spent a huge amount of time looking back and remembering.

Weird things flood my mind, and a memory will pop in. Most make me smile, some don't. Some I wonder if it's a memory at all, or did my mind make it up.

Today was one of those days where a simple thing like getting lunch made me stop and smile at some memories.

Today's lunch was at Kidd Valley Burgers.  Not overly interesting really. But when you know I worked there for two, or three summers during college, suddenly it's a lot more interesting to me. 

I started working there the summer of 1988. I hadn't worked fast food ever and it was a popular restaurant. I figured it would give me the training I'd need to someday, maybe, work in another fast food place. It helped that I really liked their burgers AND they were the first ones to call me back for an interview from the masses of applications I had filled out that summer.


The MomUnit and DadUnit were quite supportive, if not demanding that I get a job. While they paid for my college tuition and board, I had to pay for books and any other costs I incurred in college - like beer and pizza.

I started at Kidd Valley making shakes. They made real shakes. Soft serve ice cream and a plethora of flavors from fresh strawberries to peanut butter and chocolate. 


From there I moved up to cashier, to fries, to grill master (well that's what I called myself. ) and life was pretty good.

I made a good friend back in those days.  We'll call him Paula. Paula and I hit it off pretty quickly. We are still friends to this day. And we had some good times at Kidd Valley.

One night in particular, one slow night, we had - ahem - a food fight.  It ended with Paula covered in special sauce from head to toe. I simply flicked the spatula and voila - a line of special sauce.

Ahhh good times.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Changes are a comin'

Its weird how this happens to me, but every once in a while I’m jolted back to reality and I’m reminded I’m not independently wealthy now, nor likely ever will be. 

Recently Hotel CaliforniaSoft announced layoffs. I’ve had many friends affected (effected?) by this and it hits a bit too close to home for me.  It’s in times of uncertainty that I feel myself slinking back into my cave and pulling in the all the financial strings.  

I’ve been a victim of a layoff. Mine was completely unexpected and completely floored me. I thought, at the time, that I was an excellent worker and had been adding value to the team and company. It wasn’t until later years I realized it was personal, it was business.  And as Meg Ryan said in “You’ve Got Mail.” It was personal to me. 

In addition to these staggering layoffs at Hotel CaliforniaSoft, the contract community, of which I am one, is being hit hard too. Recently they’ve changed the amount of time we vendors can work at the company. We’ve enjoyed unlimited time – as long as your contract team wants you – AND no taking time off between gigs.  The agency workers (aka a-dash employees) sued Hotel CaliforniaSoft in the mid-90’s that caused their situation to be that they could only work for 365 days and then had to take 100 days off before returning to the company.  It was devastating at the time for many agency workers, but 100 days off, it turns out, is quite doable. 

Having a “vendor” status, I’ve not had to take the 100 days off (only once did I have to do that). In fact I could work for a team for as long, and consecutively, as they want me.  It’s a win-win. The team doesn’t have to retrain new employees every year, and I get to keep my job. 

Starting July 1st, the cards have been shuffled and dealt.  All contract staff, whatever your status, can only work at Hotel CaliforniaSoft for 18 months and then must take 6 months off.  This changes the game for me significantly. 

What this has done and made me realize that it’s really time to find a job in which I am not a contract employee. A real company, one that I can grow with and add value to on a full time basis. I’ve wanted to do this since I left my job before last, but the contract gigs are so inviting that I keep coming back. Oh and they pay well. 

There’s a lot of speculation flying around the contract world these days. And some great articles like this one that really shed light on what may come about for us using contracts as our livelihood. 

Contracting is not now, nor has ever been, for the faint at heart. You can lose your job at any time. (and Washington being an at-will state that’s true of any job really).  This happened to me in my last contract. They re-orged. Plans changed. Their focus changed and that meant I was gone. I know this. I live this. And yet for some reason these recent changes have me on edge more than normal. 

I’m unsure, at this point, how long my current contract will go. They “say” they want me through June of next year. I’m not a betting type, so I’m planning financially as if they don’t or cant’ keep me.  This uncertainty is what gets me.

I start to feel unsettled. I start to think more about my future and how I’m going to pay for my retirement – or taking care of the MomUnit in her later years. I start to get sweaty palms, and a rapid heart rate, and the anxiety meter is off the chart. 

I plan.

I document.

I review my budget again, and again, and again. 

And I get more anxious. 

Then I stop. Take a breath, or two. Maybe have a glass of wine, or two. And I start to really think about the implications of this new environment and what I must do to make myself feel safer, more secure. 

I start cancelling subscriptions to things that are unnecessary. Cancel the cleaners. Call the cable company and threaten to leave unless they drop my rates, etc. You get the picture. 

I still have a job and yet I’m feeling like I don’t. I’m feeling really insecure about  my career and where I’m going.  What I’ve relied on for years to pay the bills, may not be an option in the next year and a half. 

So, to make myself feel a smidgen better, I’ve updated my resume and have added myself to some job search engines and will start the search. It’s time to find a company that I can be an FTE and grow with. I know, in this world today, that nothing is really forever, but I’d much rather find someplace I can call home for a bit. And hopefully stop the worrying of having to find a job every year or so. 

Or I can marry some rich guy and this would all be for not.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Only time will tell...

This is completely not relevant to anything I'm going to blog about, but in 10th grade, at Quartz Hill High School the  marching band played "Only Time Will Tell" as one of our field show songs. To THIS day, I can still see part of the rifle routine in my head as the opening chords play.

I can't remember what I ate for breakfast, but I can remember that. Oh the mind...how I miss mine sometimes.

Right, so what's been going on since I last wrote a week ago. I think it's safe to say, absolutely nothing.  I actually had to pull out my daytimer (it's not really a daytimer, but its what I call it) to see what was what and here's what was what in the last 8 days.

Starting with the most recent:

Yesterday
Got the carpets cleaned. It's amazing how quickly one person and dirty up carpets. I hate that they are a light color and show everything, but I'd hate a dark color even more.  I pulled up the "path" carpet and boy can you tell the high traffic area. Gross. But they're all cleaned now.

Sunday
I did nothing but move furniture out of the living room and master bedroom in prep for the carpet cleaners. Oh, wait. I also unpacked all my scrapbook supplies and posted the pages I finished from the all day scrap. Oh and I cooked dinner - tacos. MMMM

Saturday
The annual all day scrap fund raiser that Seattle SIL does. I was very excited for it this year as I wanted to get my European Cruise photos done. And I mostly did. I had 20 pages "staged" and ready to go. I was sure I'd run out of stuff to work on, but alas, it turns out in 8 hours I can only do 20 pages. 

What a mess huh? It's fun to spread all your crap out as you work. I brought way too much stuff and didn't end up using at least three quarters of it.  Though all that "stuff" isn't mine. Some belongs to BeagleBabe too. 

Here are a couple of my most favorite pages.  If you're friends with me on FB you've likely seen these, so move along.

 
 
 

Friday
I did nothing but prep for what to bring to the all day scrap.

Thursday
Two scrapbooking classes from Big Picture Classes started.  I read the material and did nothing more. I have signed up for WAY too many classes that are happing at the same time.  You'd think I'd learn.

Wednesday
BOOK CLUB!  Gosh I love this group of women. We had a small group this month, only 4 of us. We opted to have it at my house since I had AC.  I'll be sending portions of the bill to book club members when I get it.

This month we read The Book Thief by Markus Zusak. I hadn't finished the book by the time book club came around, but had seen the movie. I thought the movie did a good job with the book. Sometimes you never know.  If you've not read it, read it. But we aware that it does take a good 30 pages to figure out the writing style and who the narrator is.

Oh, we drank wine. Dah. We ate pulled pork sandwiches with cole slaw on them...OMG soo good, and had strawberry shortcake for dessert. Did I mention we drank wine?


Tuesday
Toilet Shopping Tuesday!  Yes, Mrs. Landlord and I went toile shopping. The flapper in the master bath has been broken for going on 2 years now. In that time, I've fixed it once. Mr. Landlord fixed it once and the darn thing just won't fix.  So Mrs. Landlord and I got an estimate to fix the innards of the toilet. The price we were quoted was high enough that the decision was made to replace the toilets.  Thus the toile shopping.

I now know a bit more about toilets than I did last Tuesday morning.  No decision yet made on WHICH toilet but I do know I want the following:
1. it to work
2. white
3. round bowl versus elongated
4. it to work

The rest I don't care about. We're looking at dual flush and will likely weigh the pros/cons versus a regular toilet. They are quite efficient these days. So stay turned for Toiletmageddon 2014.

This just leaves last Monday.

I took the demons to the vet for their annual check-up.  Linus is weighing in at 10.9lbs. Vet said that was as fat as she wanted to see him get.  Hear that Linus! No more treats for you.

Lucy has a floating knee cap - it seems. Her right back leg gives out on her sometimes. The vet said it's like a trick knee.  We can do surgery, but she said, she is a cat and well, it's not really bothering her so let's just watch it. As she gets older, Lucy not the vet, she'll need some supplements to help with joints.  Well, the vet may too for all I know.

The ride there was interesting. Linus was singing the song of his people the....entire....way....
Meanwhile, Lucy was all, "ROAD TRIP".

Linus then sang the song of his people All.....the.....way.....home....
Meanwhile, Lucy was all, "Shut the hell up."

Too bad this photo doesn't have sound...

and voila...you're all caught up with my oh so exciting life.

Monday, July 14, 2014

A Hot Sunday Dinner

I'm so thankful that my landlords decided many years ago to take part in a home owners association deal and get an AC.  Us Seattle types aren't used to this kind of heat. And I do realize "this" kind of heat is nothing to most of you. To us, it's awful.

It's too hot for Lucy too.
 
I have the AC on and will continue to have it on through the week I think. And everyone who came to Sunday dinner last night were REALLY thankful I had AC. In fact, book club is being moved to my house because of AC.

In an attempt to keep the house reasonably cool, I lowered the temp just a bit and then turned on some fans. Still it got hot in here for me.  Probably because I was running around doing dinner and entertaining. Or because I'm fat and it's hot.

Right, so for dinner I kept it simple and did BBQ burgers. The Pantry Goats fiancé (yes you read that correctly - she's engaged) helped with the burgers. In fact he said he was good at taking orders as he was, after all, marrying the Pantry Goat. That got a giggle out of me.


I also made this kick ass Layered Orange Salad. The oranges aren't at peak for their season, but it was still good. The sweet and salty part of this salad really is what made it.

I also had some cantaloupe to use and some prosciutto to use and some balsamic glaze I bought in Spain. What better way to use it than to wrap the cantaloupe in the prosciutto and drizzle with balsamic glaze. Soooo good.

We had most of the usual suspects here for Sunday dinner. Seattle SIL and Mrs. Landlord were the two missing.


Wednesday, July 09, 2014

Because you need to know

Last night was an odd one at Chez Jenn's. And I'm not referring to the going's on's before bed time. I'm referring exclusively to things that went on after the lights were turned off.

And get your  minds out of the gutter!

First let's start with the house cleaner yesterday. She's an interesting bird and I'm not entirely convinced she should be a house cleaner.  She pulls the "Jenn dusting act" and doesn't actually move items, but dusts around them. People, if that's what I wanted, I'd do the dusting.

Anyhow, one of the things they do, which I love, is they change you bed linens. I leave out fresh sheets and when I go to bed, viola, clean sheets. Two things happened with her changing the sheets that are what I'm talking about happening after the lights went out.

Well, sorta.

First, as I entered my room I saw that the top sheet wasn't actually tucked into the mattress. I hate to have the top sheet free and all because it's, well, it's just weird and I have flash backs of my bed being short sheeted in high school

So I unmade the bed and tried to fix this problem.  Only after I started fixing it, and unmaking the bed, I decided to flip my mattress.

In trying to flip said mattress, with my two "helpers", I managed to throw my back out and was in a bit of pain. 

Which led to taking Tylenol PM - 2 pills. Which I never take because it means the next day I'm more useless than normal.

I think it also makes me walk in my sleep.

Which leads to the second point of things that happened post bedtime last night.

The sheets I used for new sheets yesterday were, in fact, brand new sheets. I had washed them and folded them ever so nicely. Only I didn't realize they were made out of sandpaper.

Good Lord were they rough sheets.  As I went to bed, a bit groggy from the Tylenol I remember thinking the sheets were rough and I should get up right now and change them. I didn't.

About 1am, I got up and swapped out the pillow cases only for a softer set.

About 2:30 am, I got up and swapped out the top sheet for a softer sheet (though not a matching sheet to the pillow cases).

About 3:45am, I unmade the entire bed, and put on a fitted sheet - that matched the pillow cases. Threw on the top sheet, but didn't tuck it in, and went back to bed.

I got up this morning and didn't actually remember right away what I had done. I do recall, vaguely hearing a large thump when I was swapping out the top sheet and think I pulled it and a cat off the bed too quickly. Lucy wasn't exactly talking to me this morning so I think it was her.

My point to this blog...is a PSA announcement:
PSA - DON'T FLIP YOUR MATTRESS BY YOURSELF. IT CAN CAUSE SERIOUS INJURY.

At least I think that's the point...

Tuesday, July 01, 2014

Maybe there’s a way out of the cage where you live

Admit it...you've been sitting there just waiting for me to post something.

I know. I'm all that and a slice of bread.

Seriously? You've been waiting right?

Ahem....insecurities aside, let's get to an update.

My last blog post was about my baby steps BACK into eating healthy. I'm on week 2 of this adventure and I can report with great enthusiasm that things are going GREAT.

The little victories I had last week and leading into this week have kept me motivated. I'm currently working on an app to capture that motivation and slap me upside the head with it when I stop feeling it.

The one thing I can say that has been the biggest difference I've seen in this week and half is how I feel emotionally.

For several months now - probably since right after losing BigBro - I've felt kinda depressed. Most the time. I haven't wanted to do things that I normally enjoy. I've just felt blah. I didn't want to say, "Hey everyone I'm depressed!" because I kinda felt it would pass and that I'd be back to me. I have, however, been able to put on one helluva good show, I think.

But here's the thing, this eating healthy thing and the small victories have really perked me up.  I've felt - emotionally - better in the last week and half than I have for months. Who knew? (well besides every single living person).

Consistent exercise still alludes me. I've added packing my gym bag and putting it by the front door to my nightly routine - and that helped yesterday. Though I battled with myself about whether I wanted to go to the gym or not.  I played the typical Jenn game of, "oh just drive by."  Then, "oh just park." Then, "well you're here you might as well go in."

I did, admittedly, sit in the car for a moment and had a little Jenn fantasy - or nightmare rather - of walking over the threshold of the gym and all these bells and whistles, and flashing lights would go off with a big sign dropping down saying, "SHE'S NOT BEEN HERE FOR MONTHS!!!"  Turns out, that didn't happen.

So here we are, just 9 days in and I feel like:
1. I've made some good solid choices.
2. I've done GREAT in the planning and prepping section.
3. I still have a hard time when it comes to eating out and making good choices.
4. I still have to force myself to the gym.

But I feel good. Oh and as for the song lyric reference from the song Brave, I was brave yesterday and stepped on the scale for the first time in, well a very long time. I was pleasantly surprised to see it wasn't as bad as I thought. It was bad, no doubt about that, but it was still a necessary step in this forever continuing, never-ending journey.